It’s very easy to add additional excuses for not wearing which quickly expand until the whole thing falling apart which is bad for everyone. If they do decide option 1 it’s critical that you stick to your word and fully commit. Whatever you decide this will apply for the next 3 months with no negotiations.” I want you to think this over carefully over the next 2 days and then on Saturday morning if you want option 1, you hand me all your underwear. You can continue to wear diapers when you want but I’m not getting involved and you can’t ask me to enforce diaper wearing, check/change you etc. I’ll give you underwear or pull ups on the days you go to work or we’re visiting family. We can discuss my exact role but it would be consistent every day such as checking you every 2 hours and doing wet diaper changes.Ģ. I’ll treat you as if you’re incontinent so I will expect you to be always diapered and that you won’t use the toilet. You move to wearing diapers 24/7 apart from work and family events. So I want you to make a decision of what you want from these two options:ġ. “ I’m finding it stressful not knowing when you’re wearing diapers and what my role should be, and I know it’s also causing you anxiety. We didn’t do this ourselves but have talked to couples who have and the most common scenario we’ve heard people using is something along the lines of: This decision is something they’ll have to stick to for a meaningful amount of time, at the minimum 1 month but ideally it should be 3-6 months before being reviewed again. The core concept is you give them an ultimatum and a clear choice about diaper wearing which they have to consider and make a decision on. We know many partners find they’re constantly guessing what their role should be which is even harder if one day they want 24/7 diapers and another don’t wear at all. It’s also helpful if you as their partner wants more structure and consistency in their diaper wearing. This idea is covered in stories a lot but it can also work well in real life in you have a partner who wants to wear most of the time but still struggles to accept themself or has stress/anxiety induced by trying to decide if they should be diapered etc.
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